If you're traveling to our event, there are lots of options for where to stay. Our recommendations are divided in 3 categories--Tacoma, Seattle, and Airport hotels. If you choose to stay in Tacoma, you'll be closer to the wedding venue (and less likely to deal with traffic); however, there are fewer attractions in Tacoma than Seattle. If you opt to stay near the airport, you'll have the convenience of being about equidistant from Seattle and Tacoma. If you stay in Seattle, you'll have no lack of things to do, but it's bit farther from the wedding. You'll probably get the best deal on an airport place.
Tacoma hotels:
SilverCloud Inn Ruston WayHotel Murano Downtown TacomaBest Western Tacoma DomeAirport hotels:
Cedarbrook LodgeFairfield Inn by MarriottRadisson Hotel GatewaySeattle hotels:
Hotel Vintage ParkSheraton SeattleWarwick Seattle This is a really brief list and I would encourage you to check out hotels.com to find other hotels that better meet your needs for price and location.